This charm focuses on Unconditional Love. Easier said then done I assure you... You will be tested on your ability to exercise this one. To the extent you can practice this will you be able to enjoy it's true meaning. Look for the place in your soul that is being challenged with unconditional Love...start there...Good luck!

Add a Kabbalah charm containing one of the 72 attributes of God and connect to that attribute.

What does this mean? It is said that we share 72 attributes of God...

Since we were made in his image, hidden in us is the potential for these attributes. To awaken this energy one needs to consciously meditate with ‘Kavanah’ (right intention) on this attribute in every aspect of their life. 

Realize that the material world is a reflection of your own spiritual world. All illness has a root in our spirit first and manifests in our body next. Anything you lack in the physical world comes from some deficiency in your spiritual work. Ask yourself, what is my soul lacking? You want Love, are you giving it away unconditionally? Are you depressed? Volunteer. You need more money, donate some - see what happens. Yes, it seems that these are opposites - but they are the cure. Meditate on your shortcomings and have them replaced by abundance.